You CAN transform self-sabotage into real fuel for your journey, so you can get on with creating the bigger and better world you envision!
When we're seeking positive change and we find ourselves blocked or stuck, it's so easy to go into self-judgment and criticism. We become dis-heartened and discouraged, losing our hope and belief in our ability to succeed.
And if we've done any personal work at all, we're SO aware of our patterns, and that awareness seems like it SHOULD be enough to change them. But in the case of self-sabotage and resistance, it's NOT. It takes a very specific skill set to get past resistance, both inner and outer.
With new understanding AND specific skills, you can get past whatever's been holding you back and start making YOUR unique contributions to the world.
I believe the changes we'll see in the coming years are going to require every one of our gifts and all of our creativity, willingness and desire. And those of us with the awareness, ability and desire have GOT to be freed up to realize our enormous potential and express it in service to our vision of the future!
I've seen lots of explanations and solutions for self-sabotage out there. Some say it's fear of failure, some say fear of success. Some call it a lack of self-confidence, some say it's negative thinking. Their solutions range from prescribed affirmations to "just try harder".
Yet your resistance is actually a loving protector that resides in your amygdala, or your unconscious "fight or flight" brain, and it takes over in order to get you to "safety". It evolved over thousands of years to help you deal with sabre-toothed tigers and keep you inside a set of safe and comfortable limits. Yet, your desires are MEANT to constantly call you to go beyond those limits and transform yourself in the process.
On a deeper level,your resistance is essential to your soul's journey. When you come into compassionate relationship with your resistance, you'll discover that it's actually part of the "raw material" that your soul has chosen to work with. In learning to transform it, you'll be accessing more and more of your "authentic self" - the most essential YOU.
Would you like to:
- Achieve your goals and desires more quickly and with less struggle
- Make new choices when your old patterns try to take over
- Learn how to have compassion for yourself when you sabotage
- Feel confident in setting juicy goals you can really achieve
- Stay committed longer, even when results are slow to come
- Find powerful, untapped sources of willingness and motivation
- Learn to support and encourage yourself no matter what
Hi, I'm
Susan Johnstone, creator of
The Heart's Voice.
I work with seekers and changemakers who have great
intentions and don't understand why they're having
difficulty following through on them. They've often
retreated from what they really want because they've
lost faith in themselves or they're just tired of being
disappointed.
I teach a set of highly learnable skills that will allow
you to gently transform your resistance into powerful fuel
for your life. I call these
"Meta-Skills" and when you practice them, each
small resistance you transform will pave the way for the
next. And here's the real secret...the skills required
for creating inner change in ourselves are exactly the same
as the skills needed for creating outer change in our
communities. So as you transform your own life, you become
a powerful force for positive change in the world! And we
need a LOT of powerful changemakers now.
So Where Do You Start?
If you're ready to give up your inner 'tug of war' and achieve your goals and desires with much more joy and ease, I invite you to download my Free E-Book. My 20-page guide called " 6 Keys to Ending Your Battle with Resistance and Allowing Yourself to Succeed" will show you many of the fascinating sources of your resistance along with the 6 Meta-skills that are needed to transform it. You'll come to see self-sabotage in a whole new way so you can reach your goals faster and actually enjoy the journey! Find out more
And if you're wondering:
Can this approach really work for me? Take a
look at the description of the people who benefit most from
my work Here.
